I have been told peoples problems and and heard of other peoples problems, there seems to be a build up of problems for people. I'm sat here wondering why, obviously I can only speculate because I, myself, do not shoulder these problems but I can say I have had similar "problems" in the past. I am stricken by a thought, for the majority of these problems there is just no need to fret, get angry or lash out over, purely because these problems are so minuscule that the probability of them being a major deciding factor in the turn out of your life or relationship is so close to zero.
I understand that people have these problems because they have been thinking it over and are convinced that it might happen and so they should prepare in someway and that if someone came by who could potentially oppose to your thoughts, they will get the brunt of the problem shoved in their face. With their attempt to remedy the problem they only get sucked into the vortex and become fuel for the person with the problem in the first place.
I write this blog for no other reason than to show that these petty problems are a potential conductor for destruction, destruction of a relationship or a friendship. It is my personal opinion that if people just took a step back and went over their problem in their heads and said "Am I dealing with this the best possible way?, is it really something to think upon too long?", a lot less arguments would occur.
This is of course only my opinion on the small problems like, "Why is he acting like a dick?", "who took what was mine?". It is common for people to make mountains out of molehills for the smallest thing, "why is such and such looking at me like that?". Not everyone has some sort of hidden agenda!
To quote my sister "There is just nae need".
I suppose it all boils down to "think before you head down a dark path with all guns ablaze!". You don't know how much darker its going to get, how many other paths are branching off it, oh and lets not forget that the person at the end of that path might be a mean motherfucker with a bigger set of guns!
